I love New York City. I love pink. I love Starbucks coffee. Life’s essentials, huh. I also love latino music, jogging, modern art museums, the Atlantic Ocean and mini skirts. Traveling is where I decide to invest. I think it’s awesome living close to New York. The Big Apple gives me what Paris used to. That metropolis vibe which is sweet and challenging at the same time. It’s a bit of a battle for your space, yet when you do make it, do find your place in the big mess, it feels even sweeter.
New York and Paris are largely a state of mind. That feeling of excitement on daily basis. Looking up and around and saying to yourself “am I lucky to be here right now.” That very sentiment is something that you can bring to your life wherever you are. First, let’s think. What is it about NYC that entices me? The cafes that keep looking for new creations, artsy things happening here and there, little affordable clothing stores on the corner of Canal Street and Broadway and cute parks where to pause and read a magazine or to journal.
I have all of those around me. Three Starbucks coffee shops are within 15 minutes from my condo. Two Second Cups and one Tim Hortons. There are also two gourmet coffee shops that I know of nearby – visiting them is on my new year’s to do list. The art scene in Quebec City differs a bit from New York City, nevertheless, there are lots of galleries to visit. And to do more things myself. Isn’t it sweeter to be a doer versus a spectator? As for clothing stores, I have found Limite and Bedo, also Dynamite, Sirens and of course the good ol’ H&M. There are plenty of parks in my neighborhood. My favorite is my Central Park.
This is what life is about. Finding sweetness in your life where you are, and then being inspired by your travels. Carrying that something special with you so that it can keep shining when the situation is long gone.
The Empire State of Mind…
I just had to experience this! My wish for my birthday. A Sex and the City Hotspots Tour in NYC. I realized that regardless of having watched the series and movies at least twice if not three times thru, I wasn’t as tuned in into the details of it all as were some other chicks on the bus. Nevertheless, it was a blast – taking in as much as I wanted of the knicks and knakcs of info and then just enjoying the atmosphere, and seeing Manhattan from a new perspective.
We stopped where the girls first encountered the Vibrator Bunny. Then we got to take a look at the insides of one of the restaurants where Carrie and the gang often met for delicious food and even more delicious lip talk. We had pink cupcakes in the Meatpacking District – Samantha’s stomping ground – and sipped Manhattan’s best Cosmos at a chic bar. The look on the guys faces when they saw a bus full of trendy chicks embank the joint! Single men, look the place up…
I got to enjoy all the fun with my NYC bestie. It was cool how our lives and stories, catching up on the latest, sharing advice and so on, intertwined with the tour. Three and a half hours later, when dropped off in Midtown, I felt refreshed and encouraged. Fiction had brought groove to my current daily life. It was there to help me find the sweetness in what I was doing here and now.
That is the positive way how we should use media – TV shows, blogs, Instagram feed, you name it. Being mindful about it supporting our lives, not pulling us down into comparing our lives to imagined or beautified stories. Life in Manhattan will never be as Manolo-blahniki-sugarcoated as it is for Carrie and Co. on the screen. Yet true life can be sweeter if we spice it up with a good amount of fiction. The way we perceive a situation can make a huge difference.
I try to be ‘clean’ about my media use. I take turns in using Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. I don’t try to do all at once. I watch TV in the evenings after my sports are done. When I dive back into Sex and the City, it is more like a scented candle, focusing on the ambiance rather than one specific detail. I try to soak in the girls’ fearless and funky attitude.
And then there are days when I light a cinnamon candle and I enjoy a little bit of good old journaling and fashion magazine reading. This is mindful media enjoyment – I try to be tuned into what I need at this very moment in order to be at my best.
Thanksgiving is around the corner. I like this holiday. It’s so American. Thanking for making it to the other side of the Atlantic. Leaving the old behind and making something new of your life. I love my country – the U.S. I hold the American spirit and history close to my heart. This is the land of opportunity. Doors are open for you to make of yourself whatever you desire. I strive on doing my best everyday. In my case, it is surely paying off. Two and some years in business, and I’m fully employed. Doing what I love – spending my days discussing in English, encouraging people and being there “just for them”.
This season is full of delicious impulses to senses. Smells and visual effects. Fashion picks up these cues. Fall and winter trends throw us with black in many forms. At the moment, I find it fun dressing in black from head to toe.
In this outfit I wanted to combine the chicness of faux leather – pants and jacket, with the “Holy Chic” spiced up black sweater. There are the elements that cherish – chic and a dash of shock. Color accents, the red collar peeking out and my purple gloves also make the ensemble more feisty.
When you want to feel happier in your life, think of all the things that you now have and you are grateful for. It is super simple yet when you really get into it, when you’re really able to do so, it will open a whole new world, right where you are. That extra free hour from working will feel super sweet. The old route to the office will appear so unique, you are there to see it today. Jillian Michaels has said that most people don’t show up in their own lives. I want to be present in mine. Nothing is perfect, but perfect is boring. Real life has all the flavors – we go thru lots of stuff and that’s when we shout out “Holy Chic – we rock, after all!”
As of late, a lot of people have told me they don’t like November. Last night I took a stroll in the nightly city – and I loved every moment of it. Seems like now I’ve truly accepted the presence of fall. Hot drinks taste better and candle light soothes even more. Mellowing down feels like the thing to do.
I’m actually out of candles so a trip to Bath and Body Works is on my to-do list. I love caramel-y, chocolate-y and spiced apple scents. Some delish body lotion will find its way into my basket, too. In creams I go for fruity, lightly spiced smells. They complement my vanilla deodorant and Guerlain’s Insolence or Lolita Lempicka perfumes. Looking at the big picture in scent world, too, is a guarantee for a stylish result.
I’ve been jogging as usual. I just bundle up more. I sport my Miami bought, Granny Smith apple green colored sweatpants and hot pink sneakers. I listen to Enrique Iglesias’ greatest hits. I take in the late evening urban vibes. My jogs happen quite late since I get done with work late. Once the last client has left, I get changed and head out.
We had two Halloween parties to attend. I made sure I danced both nights away. At the first one I found myself pretty much able to pilot the music – so of course I adored the selection of latino and dance. The party and friend get-togethers will be continuing for some weeks to come. I find that to be the perfect fall time booster.
This is the time of the year when I start wearing more pants. All summer, I pretty much live in skirts – mini ones, needless to add. Leather is always the material to go when you want to get ‘them boyz’ attention, or just feel sexy for you. That’s a good enough of a reason already. Boosting your sentiments about yourself definitely go thru feeling hot for me. You are the star of your own reality TV show – every day. Don’t look elsewhere, live your life, right there where you are, as the most precious one on earth. Because it is.
Once we truly become self-sufficient in self-love, there’s nothing that can stop us. I read a certain number of fashion blogs for inspiration. I browse Instagram – I’ve been there now for about a month under susuparischic – and I tweet with other fashionistas. Nevertheless, I came to realize that some blogs made me jealous or dissatisfied with my life. The aimed boosting effect ‘let’s go see what others are doing to live a glamorous and fulfilled life, and pick up ideas on the go’ didn’t happen. So, I took action and cut back. Instead, I spent more time watching my fave TV shows, out walking or reading my subscribed fashion mag. Find out if anything is pulling you down, and prune it out.
These pics show you where I live. Quebec City is my home. Lots of exciting things happen everyday around town. I enjoy just slipping my heels on and going out for some fresh air and life inspiration. That’s what I’ll do right now…
California is eternal summer, right? Well, the dulcet temps definitely are lingering on here in Eastern Canada. I’ll gladly take in every ray of sweet sunlight I can. Living in shorts – I found these at Target – and my sparkled tee – hunted down at my fave Canadian store Limite. As the top says “life is your glamour runway”. Making every moment of it count.
How can you make each moment of your life count? It starts by being present in what you are doing. You can train your mind to de-clutter. You can learn how to concentrate on the essential and leave the rest aside. This all starts with tuning more into who you are, and who you wish to be. You can start by pulling out a notebook and jotting down “what makes you You”.
I know I’m a person who needs to be enthusiastic. I have to feel like I’m working towards something. So, I try to fix little goals. In my work I hope to inspire students to learn more English in a class that is tailored especially for them. In my blogging I wish to get invitations to local fashion events, and to meet other fashionistas. In my jogging, stairclimbing and zumba endeavors I aim for a slim, happy body. These are my life’s building blocks – what about you?