I had a very different post in mind. But this cannot wait. A certain blogger, whose name I do not care to mention here, has written a post about me and my looks. This has resulted in angry comments, that I have the right not to publish here, on my site.
Briefly, those of you who have followed my blog, or know me personally, must have noticed that I have lost quite a bit of weight recently. This has happened due to reasons I choose not to develop here, in a public space. This is my right. I am trying to battle the issue with the help of my loved ones, and any encouragement is welcome. On the contrary, any hurtful comment or angry burst only hurts yet more.
I am sorry that blogging has led me to this sad place where I am today – actually asking if I should go on… I have been open about my doings and life situation. Always trying to leave friendly and uplifting comments on others’ blogs. I do not wish to promote anorexia. I am just a person whose life is made of brighter and darker passages.
Today my eyes are filled with tears. Feel free to leave me a note of encouragement if ever your heart tells you so.
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July 16, 2010 at 12:35 PM -
I had seen the post you mention and today I saw your very dignified and brave response. I am so glad that you have the care and support of loved ones at this time and I would like to add my thoughts and love too.
July 16, 2010 at 1:07 PM -
Susu, I too think you are brave and honest, I sincerely hope you have happier times round the corner.
I also applaud your ability to talk about it here,on your own site.
Maybe more of your followers will give you the encouragment and friendship you need to start feeling better.
All the best for the future,
Braindance.
PS: You have a pretty face and lovely smile.
July 16, 2010 at 1:13 PM -
You will get through this. Be brave and strong!
July 16, 2010 at 1:26 PM -
And I’m with Braindance, you do have a lovely face and a great smile. Keep smiling. Even in the darker times. Sometimes it’s the only thing that gets us through.
July 16, 2010 at 1:28 PM -
Susu, what an incredibly dignified response! I wish you all the strength in the world. Please know that there are many people who are thinking about you and are willing you on. My very best wishes to you.
xxx
July 16, 2010 at 1:42 PM -
Susu, I’m truly sorry you have these problems. I don’t know if it will help to say this, but please do understand that none of us on that other blog were trying to be malicious or insult you, that was not our intention at all but I’m still sorry for hurting your feelings. I agree with Braindance too- I hope things get better for you, it’s often so much easier to pretend nothing is wrong but I think you are brave for daring to address it directly.
Here’s wishing you lots of good luck, and brighter days to come.
July 16, 2010 at 3:08 PM -
Yes, absolutely Susu, DO go on blogging.
I know that nasty and mean remarks said about us can hurt, trust me, I know this from experience. But, I refuse to allow someones opinion of me change my own opinion about how I feel about myself.
Getting to know you through our blogs these past few months has been such a pleasure. You’re one the most genuine, sincere, and lovely human beings I’ve met. Therefore, you would be missed if you stopped blogging (and I’m sure all of your readers would say the same.)
So, blog on sweet lady and continue to share your beauty on this blog!
Have a great weekend!
X
July 16, 2010 at 3:14 PM -
only God knows what each of us is going through. don’t take it to heart; take it to Him to help you forget about this episode. i had mentioned seemingly politically incorrect things on blogs before. sometimes i stand by what i’ve said and sometimes the Lord dealt with me about it. we’re made of our past and it’s the hidden things that’re visible only to our God; sometimes even we’re the last to know. carry on bravely, with the help of your earth angels.
July 16, 2010 at 3:37 PM -
Susu, I pray that you will come to peace and come out of this. Even with all the changes, there is still a spirit inside of you. Use it to bring yourself back.
July 16, 2010 at 3:45 PM -
I’m proud of you darling that you explained this in public.
Sometimes the life is difficult but don’t forget we are a couple, we are together to help each other.
I’m with you and I’m sure you will arrive to solve this problem.
And continue your blog, it’s a part of your life!
With love,
your husband Sebu.
July 16, 2010 at 4:01 PM -
I’m so sorry to hear about this.Wish you all the best <3
Todella ikävä lukea tällaisesta.Toivottavasti jaksat kuitenkin jatkaa bloggaamista,postauksesi ovat aina niin ihanan aurinkoisia.Kaikkea hyvää sinulle Susu.Bisous!!!
July 16, 2010 at 4:35 PM -
Both this post, and your response on the blog to which you are responding, were dignified and brave, and I applaud you for that.
I honestly believe that neither the blogger nor all the comments beneath were malicious, but simply opening a debate about body-image. It went from there into some really heartfelt posts that were really sad and challenging and sometimes inspiring.
A thousand good wishes for whatever struggles you’re finding yourself with. Your smile is incandescent.
July 16, 2010 at 4:42 PM -
Hugs & prayers coming (((your))) way!
July 16, 2010 at 4:52 PM -
Sorry to hear someone would write something hurtful about you. I hope you are ok. I really enjoyed meeting you that time with L and would love to see you again if ever want to. Take care and keep posting your beautiful photos
July 16, 2010 at 4:55 PM -
Please disregard these ignorant people/person. As long as you keep smiling, you are beautiful. (:
July 16, 2010 at 5:11 PM -
Actually, the comments commiserated and encouraged. It didn’t see a lot of anger directed at anyone but the anonymous figures in their lives whose offhand comments about weight they took to heart. I know you would not be happy that others have discussed your body in a public forum, but nobody blamed you for it. Don’t exaggerate tone. I’m glad to hear you’re aware of your issues and have lots of real life support behind you.
July 16, 2010 at 8:30 PM -
i loved your response. i am glad to hear you have good support in real-life.
I’m glad you spelled out that you are not pro-anorexia – without wishing to be hurtful I think it was worth saying clearly.
your pictures began a discussion that was very touching and personally helpful.
I hope that your troubles are resolved soon. Good luck and all the best with your battle.
Please continue to blog and do the things that bring you happiness and strength.
July 16, 2010 at 10:09 PM -
I admire you for handling this situation with such maturity. By no means should it discourage you from blogging. I appreciate your presence in blogosphere, your sincere comments and thoughts, and so do many others. Also, as someone else already said, blogging is a part of your life.
If you ever need somebody to listen, I’ll be there for you.
July 17, 2010 at 12:42 AM -
girl…please do not read those bad comments..there’s people with no lifee wo doesn’t have nothing to do, read the comments from people who love you and who support you.. i can support you in every way you need ok? you are gorgeous and those bad comments don’t deserve your tears or that you feel bad about them. be happy my girl
July 17, 2010 at 2:39 AM -
i know you are a very nice person, i can see from your smile and your stories. I just wish you get all the help you need. You are very young and pretty and whatever situation you are in now i hope that you get through all this and have a healthy, long, beautiful life.
keep up blogging….
and that certain blogger surely feels for you, she cares for you.
God bless….
July 17, 2010 at 7:05 AM -
Susu, you are obviously a beautiful, brave person. Please know that all of us who commented on that other blogpost were engaged in a form of catharsis. We have all experienced some horrible things in the past, and part of the process is to get it all out of your system.
I wish you the best. And I only hope the dark days remain behind you.
July 17, 2010 at 12:14 PM -
I think that the comments people wrote at that blog expressed their worry about you. I would try not to see it as a bad thing but that people cared enough to wonder if you were all right and that the worry spurred a discussion about a problem that many women have.
It is hard to put one’s photos out there to be seen by the public and people do make judgements about other’s appearances based on photos. I think you are a lot braver than I since I don’t post photos of myself online to avoid being mocked for how I look.
In this case, I just think that the women at that blog who commented were expressing worry since you do appear very thin. It is a good thing that complete strangers worry about you.
Keep on blogging and keep on battle the issues you are having. You will come out winning.
July 17, 2010 at 1:53 PM -
Dear Susu, I truly enjoy your blog and admire all the effort you put into it. I live far from Paris and delight in your fotos of your city and your smile. Please be brave, accept your beauty both within and without and overcome this stage. xx
July 17, 2010 at 8:38 PM -
I think it’s really brave of you to speak about this honestly and openly in public because it is such an important and prevalent issue that many women face and an open dialogue is what’s needed. I hope that you keep blogging and keep sharing and wish nothing but good things for you (and that includes excellent health and happiness).
July 17, 2010 at 10:03 PM -
For everyone’s information, the blog in question did not write anything hurtful about Susu – only expressed concern. “I don’t want to link to her or hurt her feelings. I just want her to eat!”
July 18, 2010 at 6:49 AM -
Oh dear Susa, you owe no one any explanations. I love you, dear friend, and wish you the best. Keep on blogging, no matter what. Sending hugs and love to you!
July 18, 2010 at 11:12 AM -
Darling, you are just a brave beauty, absolutely shining! I think that you are kind of esthetical soul, and all the beautiful little things and details make you happy! So please, sweety, go on – everybody has to right to just to make best out of fashion. Maybe your classical beauty is the really “source de mal”?
hei, Blogimaailma näyttää olevan täynnä kateutta ainakin täällä Suomessa. Aivan karseita kommentteja ja muista että tuo kertoo enemmän kirjoittajasta kuin sinusta. Silti, aika kypymätöntä! Bises ma belle, on pense forcement à toi! J´adore ton blog et les images de Paris! Et vraiment, ton compagnon est adorable!
July 18, 2010 at 3:47 PM -
My sweet and loving friend, Susa, please know that I am thinking of you. I am sorry to hear that people are unkind to you, but I want you to know I appreciate you so. Life is a composition of light and dark. You are always light, smiling and bright. You have my E-mail address. I embrace you so. Love.
July 18, 2010 at 6:30 PM -
So sorry to hear that some ignorant person has too much time on their hands to talk bad about other, good people. I wouldn’t give too much thought to them, you have great support group, your sweet husband, your families, friends and big group of your blog followers (as i can see from the amount of comments) that are there for you.
Keep shining and spreading your light and positivity to the world. You’re so above all the bitterness and negativeness that some people try to throw our way.
July 19, 2010 at 3:22 AM -
First I have to say your comment on my last post really warmed me.. I really do enjoy the last (almost 6 months!) of being blogger friends and I really do agree with you on being real life friends! Fly me to Paris and we will spend the days shopping!! =) oh and tell your hubby I am very flattered! haha
second.. You don’t owe anyone an explanation of who you are and why you do the things you do..especially in regards to looks. You have always been beautiful to me. If there are problems that are going in your life that deal with issues in weight or looks then that is something that is a private matter (between you and you alone) and this person who has caused harm in words has obviously forgot that this is not their business. Some people are so bored with their own lives they find the time to make someone else as miserable as they are. I hope you know you can message me if you want to chit chat and if you need anything for me.. I definitely know how you are feeling..
Your comment really did cheer me up! and I hope you are feeling better!
xoxo
Neira
July 19, 2010 at 10:06 AM -
ignore anything negative that an insecure person has to say about you. they are only doing it as they are pathetic and jealous and clearly not happy with there own life. Stay strong and above all happy. who cares what some stranger has to say if you love blogging then keep doing it! after all who cares what one person in a world of millions has to say! lots of x
July 19, 2010 at 1:45 PM -
Hello dear Susa,
It surprised me to read this post. I cannot believe that a complete blond with a genuine beautiful smile wouldn’t even get spared. Believe me, even if you’ve lost weight, anybody who is not malicious would see past that and would only see the smile. and the great taste of style.
First, this blogger who published a post about you and your looks, did he/she used your photos? and was there any permission asked? or even if there wasn’t any photos used, did the author mentioned to you beforehand about his/her plan to publish the article about you? Because if he meant good, he must have done it.
Second, I had my share of the bad side of blogging. I’ve a reader who criticized me of my teeth. Ridiculed me for being able to afford for my shoes and clothes and travels and not able to fix my teeth. Hah!. Some people are easy to judge without even knowing nothing about me. It isn’t about money, it’s about me being Nomad, moving place from time to time since my young age.
And third, should you stop blogging? I asked the same. But I didn’t and that’s thanks to my family and friends who pushed me not too. They told that when I start to receive critiques, that just means that my blog start to achieve something, otherwise, they won’t even bother.
You have my hugs, girl. If you win this, that just proves that life isn’t all about weight. There’s so much more than that.
p.s. I’m very curious about the post. I would really like to read it.
July 19, 2010 at 1:47 PM -
I saw that post too, and was appalled. In fact I’d only stumbled across her site because of other horrible and controversial things she has said. I’ve of course only just come across your blog now but I suspect that if you were to stop blogging you’d lose such a constant in your life which you need right now. People have no right to make the comments they do, and I simply wish you all the very best for the future – at least you know you have a lovely soul with which she could never compare.
July 19, 2010 at 2:22 PM -
Thank you for your kind comments on my blog, Susa. I came here today to see what was new on your blog and found this post.
I am so sorry that you experienced some criticism on the internet. I am sorry for people’s unkindness. That is so hard to handle, but you have done it here with grace.
I wanted to say that I have noticed changes in you from a year ago. I have been concerned, as a reader of about a year and as someone who heard about what a lovely person you are to others. I have been a little worried about you to see the physical changes. Maybe it is one of the reasons I finally decided to comment on your blog: I wondered if someone would say something mean, or treat you unkindly, and I wanted you to know there was someone “out here” who understands that you are a real person with real emotions and a life outside of this blog.
I think I mostly wanted to reach out because I could know and understand that if something personal is really going on with you, that you will need people surrounding you who will give to you the reciprocal love and care you have shown to others. I think instead of criticizing or bringing up the matter, I said to myself, “I want to support this blogger with whatever struggle she is facing, and let her know I am here, supporting her.”
You are clearly a joyful young woman, a woman who has passion for life, and for fashion. It is a joy to see someone enjoying something in life like this! I hope that whatever struggles you are facing, that you will understand there are people out here who understand and know you are a caring girl who, as you put it, has her light and her shadows, just as we ALL do. (But it takes very strong people to admit that we have these shadows in addition to the light.
And for those who think they have no shadows, or, in order to deflect from their own shadows, need to point out others’? Then *that* is their shadow side.)
Sorry to leave a book of a comment here, but I just wanted you to know that someone is in your corner, hoping you will find your way through whatever woods you are walking. Like others have said, be brave and strong, and know that there are people here who wish you the very best. *hug*
July 19, 2010 at 2:25 PM -
P.S. I just read your husband’s sweet comment up there, and it earnestly made me cry a little. What a sweet husband you have. I am glad he is with you, supporting you.
July 19, 2010 at 3:19 PM -
Hi darling,
I have been reading your blog for a while and I did notice that you dropped a lot of weight lately, but I didn’t say anything because honestly it is not any of my business. I am truly shocked that someone would say something nasty to you about this. We are all here to encourage you to get better and to take care of yourself, and please don’t stop blogging! Your big smile and your kind heart brightens all of our days. We are here to support you and help you in any way possible! Big hugs to you my dear. xx
July 19, 2010 at 4:57 PM -
Dear Susu, I agree with everyone that your comments were dignified, as always you exhibit such style and grace. I sent a personal message to you, I so hope that it goes through and that you receive it.
I really thought that you were on a great new workout routine for a few months since you really look toned and fit; personally, I think you look terrific. However, if you are ill, I’m sincerely praying for you.
I hope you don’t stop blogging. You are so talented, your writing style is just a joy to read. You could always block certain addresses – you shouldn’t be subjected to comments that are negative!
hugs,
shari
July 19, 2010 at 5:24 PM -
Dearest Susu,
When I first saw your photos, it was your radiant smile that caught my attention (and the lovely photos too!) and your positivity.Whatever you´re going through right now, I certainly hope that you´ll overcome it.People can be too judgmental and they tend to overreact over some things but there are 2 sides of the story and only you know the truth which you have the right to not divulge it here. Have faith and keep smiling because I know a lot of people care and love you.
Have a lovely week ahead!
PS: That sweet comment by your husband was the best comment I´ve read in a long time in the blogosphere!
July 19, 2010 at 5:35 PM -
Hello again my dear!
I was compelled to hop back over and say that I thought your husband’s comment was so sweet and showed what a loving man he is! I see that Cheryl had that same thought and that made me smile.
By the way, I was reading a post of yours that I had missed and I think that you look radiently healthy! We have the same body type, but you have better muscle definition (I’m a runner, so my leg muscles are often irritated and the definition isn’t as pronounced).
I also had to add that people at the office have said hateful things like that to me, and it takes all of my strength not to comment on their weight as they shove a processed piece of suger “food” into their mouth!! After a while the attitude is kind of ‘bring it on’.
I’m wishing you the best and please know that I, and clearly many, many others, truely care for you, no matter what you look like or don’t look like. You have the best smile on the planet my dear!
July 19, 2010 at 6:40 PM -
You are beautiful, hey i am chunky and i have issueswith how i look. Evreybody does. We all have issues and problems. Peopledont kno you as a person, and they should not judge, I myself am going through a divorce and I comitted adultery and peoplelook down uon me. But you have to stay strong. People are always going to talk. WHO CARES… They are just jealous. Keep your head high, you will be in my prayers.
July 19, 2010 at 7:05 PM -
Dear Susu, I’m so sorry to hear about this…all I hope is that you’re well and healthy. Please take a very good care of yourself and stay as sweet as you are
Hope you’re having a fabulous summertime.
Much love: Evi
July 19, 2010 at 8:29 PM -
I applaud your honesty, and sincerely hope you get all the help and support you need to alleviate any darker passages in your life. It is definitely your right not to reveal what any issues you’re experiencing are. Your blog seems to be very much about accentuating the positive and having a sunny outlook, and that is entirely your prerogative too – not that you need me or anyone else to tell you that.
I am glad you’ve explicitly said you don’t wish to promote anorexia though. To me many of your poses seem to draw deliberate attention to your frame: lots of outstretched arms, knocked knees etc in a way that I personally find uncomfortable to see. This is my own personal opinion. I am entitled to that, and to expressing it, in a non-confrontational way, since when anyone posts a photograph of themselves in a publicly available space, as a consenting adult, they are tacitly acknowledging an audience will have thoughts about it and responses to it. Naturally you can choose not to publish my comment, if you prefer, and that’s your right because it’s your blog.
I hope you will not feel this is an attack on you, your values, your blog or your body. I wish you absolutely no ill-will and think it will be fantastic when your smile is complemented by a strong healthy frame.
July 19, 2010 at 8:29 PM -
Susa I am so sorry to hear about this. No one has the right to make comments about you in any way, shape, or form. I visit your blog because you are a bright, beautiful person, and you never cease to put a smile on my face via your countless fashion and foodie adventures. Please cheer up; we all adore you and Susu Paris Chic. Do not let someone bring you down with hurtful comments!
And you’re right…one day we will meet up in a magnificent location, and drink champagne, and chat the day away!!
July 19, 2010 at 9:55 PM -
Susa you are a beautiful soul my dear full of light. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. You are a gift. This life is a gift. Do what makes you happy and listen to your heart always. I have found on my own journey that when people make negative comments toward you it is because it really stirs up negative feelings they have about themselves. This is not about you rather about them and there self dissatisfaction. Self love is the hardest accomplishment for some of us. But everyday we try to let go and love. You are loveable. You are smart. You are creative. You are special. You deserve abundance. You are fearless. You are supported. You are loved. Now rise up and meet your true self.
I am SO looking forward to meeting you in Paris and celebrating YOU!
Much love, light and blessings, Mish XOXO
July 19, 2010 at 10:28 PM -
I once went from 142 to 92 pounds due to stress from a divorce. Its unfortunate that people focus on our looks and not our needs.
Dont quit blogging.
July 20, 2010 at 3:17 AM -
i admire your honesty, i wish you thr best!
July 20, 2010 at 3:20 AM -
I popped over to see what was new here and I am so sad to hear of this
You are a bright star in the blog world, please let your light shine and don’t let this discourage you.
I don’t know the post that you reference and I hope to never see it. The insensitivity of the comment breaks my heart. Why would it NOT be hurtful to tell someone to eat?? Would you tell a obese person you just want them to go to the gym?? There are much better ways to express concern. This is a lesson for all of us that it’s never a good idea to discuss others’ in a public forum.
Susu – I wish you the best in all you do. I appreciate your presence here in the blog world. Your adventures and smile brighten many of our days. Please be strong and know that you are supported and loved by many!!
July 20, 2010 at 7:35 AM -
i am so sorry to hear about this! it’s truly insensitive for this person to target you in this way, but i truly admire ur response. i’m so glad to see that u chose to take the higher road. please keep doing what ure doing here on the blogosphere! i love visiting ur blog and of course, ur awesome poses;) i’m sorry that ure going through a rough patch, as well. sending lots of hugs and prayers ur way. u are loved, susu!
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July 20, 2010 at 2:32 PM -
You are absolutely beautiful and you have such a sweet soul! Do not let some cowardly blogger tell you any different! You should definitely continue blogging because we will all miss you if you don’t. <3 Wishing you all the best at this time.
July 20, 2010 at 2:36 PM -
Don’t you ever let anyone discourage you from blogging. Wish you all the best! ♥
July 20, 2010 at 3:42 PM -
Hi Susa!
As someone who has met you in person, I have to say that you have so much more to offer that just physical appearance – you are a kind, thoughtful woman who has such a zest for life that I believe it would be a shame to NOT continue blogging and continue to move and inspire us all. I know you are going through a rough time in your life, and for just as many negative comments as there have been, there are ten times more comments from bloggers who love and support you, no matter what.
I am here for you, and sending you lots of love and hugs! And what a sweet husband you have:)
Love,
Meghan
July 20, 2010 at 4:16 PM -
omg Susu, I can’t believe that there are people like that in fashion blogging, you’re such a sweet person that blogger is really idiot ( hope you read this)! I’m so sick of this kind of persons, I had my shares of nasty comments and I got back to a troll in real life, such a great feeling:)
please continue blogging, it’s a shame to let go because of such people!
hugs!!
July 20, 2010 at 5:36 PM -
no need to care much about that kind of people,
there are a lot more out there who care about you
dont leave blogging please, we all will miss you
probably this is just a kind of obstacle, like what happens in other filed as well
but believe me, this makes you stronger than before and when you has overcome this, you will realize about how great you are
sending some love,
fhen
July 20, 2010 at 7:07 PM -
My dearest Susa,
Thanks for your emails… As you can see, I’m a little late here to comment but I didn’t read the post due to being busy before my big trip so I really appreciate you letting me know. I have known you personally for over two years now and I can say without hesitation that you are one of the sweetest, most genuine person I know – have known in my life…
I know that you have lost a lot of weight due to personal reasons and that we haven’t talked about it since you have been back from the States… You know you have my support and friendship above anything and that if you need someone to talk to, well… I’m here for you!
I don’t know what was said or shown on that blog/blog post… but if they used any pics of you – that you took without your permission… and then talked about you in a negative way on an open forum rather than contacting you personally to see what was going on with you… “to support and help you through something” – rather than to make you the subject/object of a public rant about people being worried that you were losing too much weight – and not even asking you about it.. Well, I can just say that it was wrong on their part- even if I don’t know at all what was said— if their were any mean/negative/hateful comments as a result of that post- that’s wrong, too.. And, if the people who commented here on your blog to somehow write that no harm or malice was intended towards you… Well, I don’t know what their idea IS – if you felt you had to defend yourself here on your own blog… and also explain that you were having personal issues and have support from others …
I think I can clearly see from the people who read your blog – just ADORE you and don’t want you to take the blog post to heart– but I would write to the person and ask/tell them to remove any pictures they posted that do not belong to them- if that’s the case… That’s just VERYYYY wrong!!
Please continue to blog.. Your smile cheers me up and I always love coming here to see your FAB fashion sense, great pics and vibrant smile and joie de vie!!
You go girl!!
Love you lots and lots of big hugs to you!!
Leese
July 20, 2010 at 9:46 PM -
Hi Susu! We have already talked about this issue and I feel that you have no reason to care about those negative comments except to tell them not to use your photos without your permission like the above commentor said. Some people are losers I’m sorry to say, so when they find other successful or happy people, they will try and bring them down to their level. It’s so sad! So ignore them and don’t pay them any attention! Let them live their aweful lives!
July 21, 2010 at 8:36 AM -
I’m so sorry. I hope you can see past the negativity and focus on your recovery. You are not alone!
July 21, 2010 at 4:12 PM -
Dear Susu,
Aw, I’m sorry to hear this, some can be so mean, especially around the web which seems to foster cowards who could never say their nasty things to people’s faces, however, give then an anonymous alias and they’ll attack away.
Anyway, all the best to you during such a rough patch of time, I know you can triumph over all these struggles. ♥
And thanks for your sweet comment, as always!
xoxo,
S-C
July 21, 2010 at 4:16 PM -
Dear Susu – Sorry for being so late on this. I’m quite shocked. The only person who has the right to say anything about yourself and your looks is yourself. Has this person nothing better to do than to be negative/mean/vicious about others?
Your blog is always a joy to visit. I hope you get better soon & take good care of yourself! xoxo
July 22, 2010 at 1:53 AM -
I agree with Sabine. As long as you are happy with yourself thats all that matters. I only came across your blog the other day and I really enjoy reading it would be a shame of you to stop over one persons nasty comments.
I wish you good health and a speedy recovery.
Hugs
July 22, 2010 at 6:10 PM -
Hello my dear. I’m sorry you received such unkind feedback from the blogging world. I don’t know which blog you are referring to (not that I intend to read it now anyway), but it’s sad that some people choose to criticize rather than support. I’m glad so many people here wish you the best and realize that no one is perfect and everyone has struggles. I wish you well and of course hopefully we’ll finally get to meet in August!
July 23, 2010 at 1:37 AM -
Oh I am sorry sweetie. That is just one hateful person. Well there are lots of us who are support and love you. Don’t let one bad person get you down. xoxo
July 30, 2010 at 4:56 AM -
To be honest, I am glad you wrote this post. I was extremely uncomfortable with the fact that you look so unwell and people seemed to be cheerfully ignoring it. Of course, I could guess what the cause was, and understand that it is not your fault, that it is a complex biological and psychological issue. And I understand further that it is none of my business. But I just couldn’t write something like “Oh, what a nice shirt!” when I can see every bone in your body. It just seems so shallow.
That being said, I know I don’t know you very well, but I can tell that you are a bright, vivacious individual with a true love for life. Your comments on my blog make me smile. I wish you all the best, and to be honest, I hope to see you looking healthy again, so that your outside matches your inside.
August 2, 2010 at 3:04 PM -
I’m with my fellow Joanna there….I am glad you addressed this. Get well. x
August 6, 2010 at 2:37 AM -
sorry I am so slow to respond to this heartfelt post of yours, susu. You are a beautiful person, and I know this first-hand for sure because we saw each other in person not too long ago! Whoever this blogger was, they obviously don’t realize the brilliance of your spirit and the positive power your blog and words have–you have so many people who love you and your blog. Keep on keepin’ on, as they say. We are all here for you!